Your kids need money!

Today some brief musings on kids and money… and yes I do not want you to deny it – your kids need money!  Here’s a thought, if you’re a kid reading this why don’t you put this post in from of your Mum or Dad?!!

Mum and Dad pay attention.  If you ignore your kids education about money they will leave home useless, by that I mean they will be unable to make financial decisions and probably end up in the “pooh” very quickly.  Is that what you want for your kids?

Now, I do not mean that you shoud hand out hard, cold cash to your kids and call it financial education!  This is not teaching them anything.  I do not mean that you should buy them what they need so that you feel good.  Do not use money as a parenting substitute for it will come back to bite you on the bum in the future.  Be proactive, be positive, and most of all construct opportunities to feed them knowledge about money.  Sometimes that means letting them learn from your mistakes.  but hey, wouldn’t you rather they didn’t end up making the same mistakes you did?

Here are a few ideas on what I think you can do:

1.  Involve your kids in discussions about family goals.  If they know you’re working hard to achieve goals this will teach them how they can be proactive in achieving things in the future.  Role model to them the positive decisions you make around opportunity cost.  That means show them that you sometimes make sacrifices in the short term in order to achieve better things in the long term… you do do this don’t you?

2.  Give the kids some areas of responsibility with money.  You make a judgement call on just how much responsibility they can handle, or how much “risk” there is.  But why not put them in charge of the groceries every now and then?  Stop laughing and consider the wide range of skills you could help them to learn by giving them this level of responsibliity.

3.  Encourage them to contribute.  I’ve just helped a lady who is working hard to achieve some goals for her family.  She has accepted my challenge to involve her daughters, and will be asking them to contribute to the amount required.  Set a target for them to raise and help them ot come up with creative (and legal) ways to raise funds.

I hope this gives you some ideas.  If you have any constructive ideas that could help others, post a response.

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